Here’s a great article to introduce giving and receiving an erotic massage.  Massages can be performed at the same time, but it works best when one partner gets massaged first and then the roles are reversed.

Ideally, you should perform an erotic massage on a table, just like a normal massage so you can have proper amount of space and comfort for both partners.  Remember the point of erotic massages is to arouse your partner and keep them there with both verbal and non-verbal communication during the massage.  Both partners should try to be verbal in terms of their feelings and level of pleasure.

What to Bring:

Music: Playing favorable music is a really good idea so they can be comfortable and happy listening to music they enjoy.

Clip Fingernails: Be sure to keep proper hygienge, especially short fingernails so you don’t hurt your partner during a massage.

Lubrication: Bring lubrication to not only massage the entire body, but specifically the genitals to make the experience more pleasurable and prevent sore spots.

When starting the massage, try to relax your partner so they won’t be tight and they can fully enjoy all the aspects of the massage.  When you both are ready, have the partner getting massaged get naked and lie face down on the massage table and start massaging the upper and lower back.  From there, massage parts of the back, legs, feet, and other areas of the body you or your partner deem appropriate.

From there, you can turn your partner over and massage the chest, arms, and hands and then finishing off in the genital area to tease them and build the erotic energy.

Once you’ve build a good amount of erotic energy, you can focus on sexual activities.  Here are things to keep in mind when massaging men and women.  Men often reach their climax quickly and once they have ejaculated, the massage is usually finished.

Women, on the other hand, usually take longer to reach their climax and their arousal tends to be more closely tied to their emotional state and their feelings toward their partner.  Also, women can have multiple orgasms from either g-spot stimulation or clitoral stimulation.

Keep in mind a great way to finish giving each other erotic massages is with intercourse.  A good idea is to let the man get his massage first so he can reload for intercourse at the end of the female’s massage.

I hope you enjoy the next time you experience an erotic massage and remember to play safe!